Very glad to be part of the forum! After a lot of searching I bought an Iveco 90-16 in great condition. I was planning to do some service on it and was close to Poland, and thought I would take it there and let them change all oils. Yes I know, this was a HUGE mistake... I thought it better to get it changed soon rather than driving it thousands of kilometers and then doing it myself...
Anyways, I told the shop to put in SAE 80W90 GL4 into the gearbox. They said they had it and proceeded to change oil filter, diesel filter, air filter for the brake system, and engine oil, transmission oil, transfer case oil and axle oil (all other oils are fine).
I proceeded to drive off but thought my truck sounded weird after taking off in 2nd gear. When I engage the clutch from standstill in 2nd gear, a brief "shriek" is heard... Confused I drove back to the mechanic, but not before driving around for maybe 20-30 km..
The mechanic tests the truck and can hear the sound. He puts the parking brake in, goes under the truck and tells me to engage the clutch while listening for the sound. He says it comes from the gearbox
We proceed to change the oil to SAE 80W90 GL4 which they had to go and buy... The sound however can still be reproduced. When starting in gear 2 and engaging the clutch there is a brief shriek when the truck starts moving. Sound is also there when doing the test with gear 3 from standstill and parking brake active and engaging the clutch. The sound comes after the clutch is almost fully engaged. There is no sound with gear 1 however.
Has my gearbox been destroyed from running the wrong oil for 20-30 km? Was the oil they put inside detrimental to my gearbox? If anyone could advise I would really appreciate it as I'm pretty devastated by this.
And please, don't remind me not to ever change oils at a shop. I thought putting the right liquid into a hole was something every man could do....
EDIT: Second problem has appeared after my trusty service. My engine doesn't want to idle after driving from Poland to Germany, about 260 km at 2700 rpm (~92 km/h on stock tires) for 2.5 hours. Should I assume they have installed the wrong diesel filter as well? Engine gets air, thank god they didn't touch my air filter. It seems like I should replace whatever they put on it.

This is the oil that went into the transmission the first time:
